In Part 1 and 2, you found out why I volunteered with the
Washington Spirit and what it was like to be a volunteer. But as I soon realized, it’s more than just a
volunteer gig. The Spirit Family is real
and the Spirit Crew is awesome.
People always say making friends as an adult when you’re no
longer in high school or college is difficult.
You’re no longer forced to be at a certain place for a certain time with
certain people. Arguably, the same can
be said for people in the workplace, but people treat work as work and all go
home to their own lives. It’s no
different for the Spirit Crew. We all
have jobs and we treat our work as work.
It just so happens that when we go home from work, our lives revolve
around soccer in all of its glorious forms.
When #SpiritFamily started popping up on Twitter, I’m sure
some people thought it was corny. But I
found it to be incredibly appropriate.
From the time some of us met each other at the Volunteer Orientation or
when we worked our first game, we started being more than just random people we
met while volunteering. After starting
the season with an away game, the Spirit had a home stand of 4 straight games. So for 4 straight weekends, we spent hours at
the SoccerPlex together helping make sure that the league had everything they
needed, that the teams on the field had everything they needed, that the
referees had everything they needed, and that the fans had the best experience
we could provide them. We bonded a lot
during the season. To the point that
after the games, we stuck around helping tear things downs and moving things to
where they belonged, not because we were necessarily assigned to do those
things, but because we wanted to help.
Usually a group of us would go out afterwards to talk,
laugh, and share stories of things that happened during the games that would
make tears stream down our faces in laughter.
Or regale each other with dramatic stories of life and death, like the
time I was helping the ushers in the stands after a game when Ashlyn Harris
threw one of her gloves into the stands.
I watched as the glove fly gracefully through the air in slow motion and
landed next to me with a gentle plop, not befitting what was about to
transpire. Time moved in slow motion,
like in those war movies when you see a grenade being thrown at the good guys…
however, this time instead of diving on the thing like a hero, I jumped away as
the crowd rushed the area to try to retrieve this game worn souvenir. I’m glad I lived to tell the story. Hours would go by over the three of the most
important things in life: fun, food, and friends.
It wasn’t just game day shenanigans that bonded the group
that would eventually name itself the Spirit Crew. We travelled to National Team games, followed
the Spirit to other NWSL venues, and a group of us were at the NWSL
Championship game between the Western New York Flash and the Portland
Thorns. (And all the road trip hijinks
that such adventures entail.) We tailgated together at games. We’ve run 5Ks and obstacle course races
together. We’ve laid wreaths at
Arlington National Cemetery together.
We’ve celebrated birthdays and housewarmings together. The best way to describe all of that is:
Spirit Family. It is more than just a
catchy hashtag.
Even early on in the season, the concept of the Spirit
having a string of away games boggled out minds. No Spirit game days? What would we do? We couldn’t fathom life without the Spirit Family. Even now in the off-season, we still keep in touch
despite our varying lives and obligations keeping us away. But every time we get back together, it’s
like we were never apart. And with the
new season coming up and a new generation of volunteers coming in, the Spirit
Crew anxiously awaits for the new members to the Spirit Family.